Choosing an engagement ring is a momentous milestone and one of the most exciting purchases you'll ever make. Whether you're looking for yourself, shopping for your partner, or exploring together, the process can feel overwhelming.
With so many options to choose from, it’s important to focus on what truly matters. Here are a few in-depth tips to help you select the perfect engagement ring that reflects your story and stands the test of time.
1. Know your lifestyle
Your engagement ring is more than just a symbol of love – it’s something you’ll wear daily. That’s why it’s important to choose a design that complements your lifestyle.
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Active lifestyles: If you’re someone who loves the gym, gardening, or hands-on w
ork, consider durable settings like bezel or flush settings that encase the stone and protect it from wear and tear. These styles are ideal for preventing snags on clothing or damage during activities.
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Stone size: While larger stones may catch the eye, they can also get in the way of everyday tasks. Opt for a moderate size that feels comfortable without compromising brilliance.
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Band design: Thicker bands or rings with secure prongs are great for those who need something sturdy. Think about how often you’ll wear your ring and the situations it might encounter – from desk jobs to adventurous pursuits.
Your engagement ring should balance beauty and practicality, so you can treasure it without worry.
2. Choose a timeless style
Trends come and go, but your engagement ring is forever. Selecting a classic design ensures that your ring will remain as elegant in 20 years as it is today.
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Classic designs: Timeless options like solitaire rings (featuring a single diamond) or trinity rings (with three stones representing past, present, and future) never go out of style.
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Personal expression: While timeless doesn’t mean boring, focus on styles that align with your personality. For example, vintage-inspired designs with intricate details can feel timeless yet unique.
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Adaptable beauty: A simple, elegant design is easier to pair with future jewellery, whether it’s your wedding band or anniversary pieces.
Remember, trends like coloured gemstones or unconventional shapes can be fun, but ensure they resonate with your personality to avoid regret later.
3. Consider the metal carefully
The metal of your ring is just as important as the diamond or gemstone itself. It sets the tone for the overall aesthetic and determines the durability of the piece.
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Yellow gold: A classic choice that exudes warmth and richness, yellow gold works well with traditional styles and pairs beautifully with diamonds and coloured gemstones.
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White gold and platinum: Sleek and modern, these metals have a silvery appearance that complements cooler skin tones. Platinum, while more expensive, is hypoallergenic and exceptionally durable.
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Rose gold: A romantic option with a blush hue, rose gold suits a wide range of skin tones and is perfect for those seeking something unique yet timeless.
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Mixing metals: Can’t decide? Two-tone designs combine different metals to create a versatile, eye-catching look.
Pay attention to how the metal complements your wardrobe, skin tone, and lifestyle. Also, consider the long-term maintenance – white gold, for example, may need periodic rhodium plating to maintain its shine.
4. Focus on authenticity
Your engagement ring is a deeply personal symbol, so it should feel authentically you.
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Trust your instincts: Don’t be swayed by what’s trending on social media or what others suggest. Focus on what resonates with you or your partner.
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Symbolism matters: Look for designs that tell a story or hold sentimental value, such as a setting that resembles a flower or a gemstone with a personal meaning.
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Customization: If you really can’t find the perfect ring, consider customising one. Many jewellers offer bespoke services to create a ring that matches your vision.
Above all, this is a ring you’ll wear every day. It should feel comfortable, meaningful, and uniquely yours.
5. Nail the sizing
Once you’ve chosen the perfect style, the next challenge is getting the size right. Especially if the proposal is a surprise, this can feel tricky – but it’s not impossible!
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Borrow a ring: Subtly borrow a ring your partner wears on their ring finger (or one of similar size). A jeweller can easily measure it.
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Enlist help: Reach out to close friends or family members for guidance. They might already know your partner’s size or can help find out without spoiling the surprise.
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Casual browsing: Plan a fun day of "window shopping" together. Try on rings and casually note their size. This works well if your partner is involved in the process.
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Simple resizing: When in doubt, choose a style like a solitaire that is easier to resize. Most jewellers offer resizing services, so you can adjust the fit later if needed. It’s also a good idea to buy a ring on the bigger rather than smaller side, as it’s easier to size down than up.
The key is to remain flexible and not stress too much – what matters most is the thought and love behind the gesture.
Bonus tip: Shop smart
Once you’ve narrowed down your choices, it’s time to make the purchase! Shopping during promotions, like Valentine’s Day, Black Friday, and winter or summer sales, can help you get more sparkle for your budget. You’ll also get better value buying pre-owned at trusted brands like Charles Fish. That’s because we don’t have material costs or VAT to cover, so we’re able to pass those savings down to you.
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With these tips in mind, you’re ready to find an engagement ring that will be cherished forever. Enjoy shopping, and here’s to a lifetime of love and happiness!
